March 25, 2013

  • Boundaries

    Hi Leah ! Here is your Daily Chinese Horoscope for Monday, March 25
    "Have you been seeing a little too much of someone lately? If it's time for a break, just say so. This doesn't mean you don't care about one another. It simply means you have healthy boundaries."

     

     

    I've had my horoscope emailed to me everyday for at least 5 years, probably more like 7 years.  I go long periods where I just delete the emails, and move on.  Then some days I decide to open them.   Like today.   And yes, Universe, I hear you.  This is just my Chinese Horoscope.  My Leo one told me I was upside-down in the money area.  Which I am.  

     

    So.  What the hell am I doing?  Did I really need to see Lance twice in as many days?   It's always this way.  We can't just talk every now and then.   If he's in my life, he is all up in my life.  If it keeps going like this, I'm afraid we are going to creep into weird territory.  I stated my boundaries Friday night.  I think I was pretty clear.  I mean, if you tell someone, "I don't need you",  doesn't that get the point across?  I also said, "Even if I did need someone, you are not someone I want."   I need to remind myself of those words.  and the reasons behind them.  Over and Over and Over.   He is not someone I want.  He is lots of things I DO NOT want.  I do not need him to make me feel better about myself.  I do not need him to take care of me.  I do not need to take care of him.  It should be better this next weekend.  He has his daughter for the week.    So maybe just hold it to one encounter every other weekend if I'm not busy.  I will hold myself to this boundary.  I can do it.  The problem is, he has no boundaries.  

     

    Leah K.

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